Bonus
Determining
who you are, what you believe, and who you will become can be a complex period
in one’s life. In Graham's article "Confessions of a
Quit Addict" she is running away from the
conventional life that she sees as something to "drag" her
down. She wanted to be "free of responsibilities and
relationships". She saw the possibility to "reinvent"
herself each time she chose to flee to another place. As she grew older and
after the birth of her child, she began looking for something in life she could
hold on to. A constant that she could rely on. She found that if she didn't go
chasing after change, "it will do a perfectly good job of finding"
her. In Brooks article "It's Not About You" he states that today college students were the most
"monitored, tutored, coached, and honed" high school graduates.
After being so supervised now they find themselves entering a "world that
is unprecedentedly wide open and unstructured." Will they be able to
adjust? Brooks believes, "Most will spend a decade wandering from job to
job and clique to clique, searching for a role." Students are encouraged
to follow their passions and dreams by the parents who grew up during the 60s
but they have been so supervised do they really know how to determine what they
really want out of life. In Graham's article, she is constantly looking inward
to "find" herself while Brooks brings up the point that most
successful young people look "outside and find a problem, which summons
their life." Fulfillment in life comes from being true to your
beliefs and how you can better the world around you.